There is this great quote that I haven't been able to put my finger on. It goes something like this: 'I realised that I have spent most of my life living just to the right of myself.'
Lately I've
been thinking a lot about this, because I'm pretty sure this is familiar to pretty much everyone. How
rarely do I - even now, when I'm much more aware than I used to be - live rooted deeply in my own body, deeply in the
'Now'. I am frequently leaning ahead of myself, just out of reach,
off-centre, straining towards the next moment, the next relief, the
next reward, the next task. And when I'm shrinking away from an
anticipated unpleasant moment in the future, I'm still leaning away
from myself.